John A. Gehrisch Warns Against Choosing “Taker” Personality in What Readers Have Referred to as “The Most Important Relationship Book Ever Written!”

In “The Golf Pro Has Heart,” John A. Gehrisch delves into the intricacies of relationships, providing readers from all walks of life with much-needed practical advice and invaluable wisdom for building and sustaining meaningful connections. The author dedicates his book to his parents, whose examples of honesty, integrity, respect for all deserving, faith in God, and faithfulness to and respect for each other pointed him toward a new calling.

Gehrisch, who had endured the pain of two failed marriages, studied the attributes of his parents’ relationships and their personalities as well as of the couples he met in his life and seen interviewed on TV – couples that met the criteria of being married for 50 years or more, in a fulfilling relationship, happy, still madly in love, and best friends. He discovered they all share common traits. He said: “For another thing, I realized that they were both givers! And not takers!”

The author explores the subject of the “Taker” personality at great length in “Hole #9: Warning Signs of a Taker Personality” and “Hole #15: JAG Formula for a Happy, Loving, Long-Term Relationships.” One thing he speaks about is the importance of avoiding a “Taker” personality when choosing a life partner for a great relationship. He differentiates between a Giver and a Taker in a relationship and presents analogies and scenarios of how a Taker would behave towards their partner or conduct themselves in the relationship.

“The Giver gives, and the Taker takes,” said Gehrisch. “The Taker gives very little back, and if they do, it’s usually only when they want something in return. The Giver does not give for the sake of receiving something back…”

He covers “100 Things You Should Know About Your Potential Mate,” one being “what kind of personality do they have? Are they a Giver? Or Taker?”

Gehrisch cautions his readers against choosing a Taker Personality man or Taker Personality woman. “Takers are masters of doing what it takes to get what they want. After all, they have been doing it their whole life.

What are the warning signs of a Taker Personality? How does a Taker Personality man or Taker Personality woman act in a relationship? Learn the answers to these questions and much more in “The Golf Pro Has Heart: Secrets of Couples Still in Love After 50 Years and A Private Look Behind the Curtain of the Professional Golf Tour” by John A. Gehrisch also includes funny, interesting, and even touching stories that happened on the golf course. The book is available in paperback, hardcover, audio, and eBook on Amazon and Barnes & Noble.

“The Golf Pro Has Heart” has been making the rounds at different book events. The book will be displayed by the self-publishing and book marketing company ReadersMagnet at the 2024 Hong Kong Book Fair. The book event will be held on July 17-23, 2024, at the Hong Kong Convention and Exhibition Centre in Wan Chai, Hong Kong. Visit the ReadersMagnet exhibit to check out the book’s display.

Author’s Biography:

An electrical engineer by education who parlayed a successful sales and marketing career into owning a company that produced enough wire to wrap the world 13 times in one year. After selling the company that Warren Buffet now owns, he became a Tour Professional on the Professional golf circuit. But John A. Gehrisch is far from typical.

Golf remained his passion. As soon as he turned pro in 1999, he started playing on the mini-tours, finishing second several times prior to winning his first event on the Western States Tour in early 2000. He has played on and off on the Champions Tour (then the Senior Tour) and been paid to compete in international professional tournaments as far away as the Azores and Morocco.

Not one to remain idle, he was then became a co-partner in a commercial real estate development and management company. Also, President of BBJM Golf Ventures, the exclusive golf memorabilia producer since 2003, John has enjoyed golf since he got out of college. It was his Dad who dreamed of John becoming a tour golf professional.

Gehrisch later assisted in the direction of successful turnarounds of several struggling companies. He was honored to serve on the New Hampshire Governors Round Table and the U.S. Presidential Round Table.

Always a seeker of the Top Mentors for answers, he began the search for the secrets to Happy Loving Long Term Relationships from people who actually achieved it for over 50 years. These are the older couples who endear your heart through the love they clearly exude for each other. Why would anyone look anywhere else?

“The Golf Pro Has Heart: Secrets of Couples Still in Love After 50 Years and A Private Look Behind the Curtain of the Professional Golf Tour”
Author: John A. Gehrisch
Genre: Relationships
Publisher: Quiet Thunder Publishing
Published Date: September 20, 2023

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